Relationship 101: Hookup to relationship? Is It possible?

First, I am going to answer the question directly. It is absolutely possible to turn a hookup into relationship. These days, increasingly people are asking this question, because more and more people find themselves falling in love with their hookup partner as they are not supposed to. Owe to the boosting market of mature dating app market, it has never been so easy to find one night hookup with someone. Just download a tinder hookup app and create a profile on it. You will be able to find someone to hookup with in no time. The more hookup you had, the bigger chance you will be facing this question, because in some time, you are going to meet someone who are special to you, regardless of how you meet and what your intention at the first place. If you are one of those people who are using mature dating app, you might soon find yourself wondering about this question. Here is the answer for you. Several tips for you to turn a hookup into relationship.

First, take your relationship outside of the bedroom. I believe bedroom is the place you usually spend time at. It is time to expand that area if you want more than hookups, because if you keep hanging out in the bedroom, the result will be one day very soon, your hookup partner gets tired of you and move on to another person. You should make your relationship different for your partner, but it has to be subtle and unnoticeable. In other words, take baby steps. Asking your hookup partner to grab a coffee together before you meet for sexual activities, or have a dinner together in a restaurant. The main purpose is to spend more time with each other like two friends or two people in the process of fating. In the meantime, rebuild connections by talking. Stop talking about how are you going to do this time in bed. Talk about deeper and more meaningful subject, such as how do you feel about relationship. How is your work? How is your family? Find connections and echo in your conversation. That is the right connection two person in a relationship should have.

Second, ask about his/her life status. Why am I suggesting you to ask this question? Because usually a person in a very good status of their life would possibly be open for a serious relationship, because they are able to maintain it. If your partner’s life is in a bad shape, then he/she might not be into something serious.

Show him/her that you are in a good status of your life. To develop a serious relationship, you too, also need to maintain a good life first, just like the frontier tip I mentioned above. When you are evaluating your partner’s life, he/she is also evaluating yours. No one wants to be in a relationship with someone who are living a pretty messing life themselves. How are you going to honor a relationship when you cannot even live a cool life of yours. Therefore, you need to show your hookup partner how cool your life is.

Make him/her miss you. This time, you need to let him know how you matters in their heart. How to do that? Don’t contact them for some time. But that does not mean go ghost. Just don’t meet them in the regular time when you are supposed to meet. For example, if you usually meet once a week, make it two weeks or three weeks. Just don’t let them see you when they miss you. By doing this, they might realize how much you matter to them.

Make them jealous. This is the last step. Let them know that there are also other girls in your life who wants you. But be careful with this, because it is possible that they may mistake you as a playboy who are only looking for trans hookup with different people. Don’t go over too much.